Why do I like to quarrel? A True Confession!!!!

Why do I like to quarrel? A True Confession!!!!


Anyone and every one in this world have been in a Quarrel, and there has to be a reason for it, yes we all like to quarrel!! Don’t we????

It’s just this that some of us have the courage to confess our liking and others don't.


This somewhere means that I also like to quarrel or may be I love to quarrel!! To find a reason for my liking, I decided to flip over the pages of book of my life and go through the chapters that had me involved in various quarrels and the result came in as a big surprise ... Would you like to take a guess whom I fight the most with ???? It’s me, myself!!!! Hard to believe but it’s a truth ….

I have been in quarrels with myself n numbers of time for n number of days. The reasons for those situations were that, I was not sure of what I am doing and what I want to do. My inner being splits into 2 and the quarrel for the right one to win begins. When a quarrel is going on with in me, it always involves a lot of analysis of the situation, the rights and the wrongs, the pros and cons, its more like a tug of war!!
Looking back I realize it’s the quarrels that have actually helped me find my way out, have taught me how to argue to myself, how to conclude the right …..This leaves me with a reason to like the quarrel as it leads me to the right decision.



When I quarrel with the outside words it’s again for a reason. We fight or quarrel for the ones whom we love . At times our fights can be self centered.


I have observed that I have been more than ready to get into a fight when someone tries to take my passion away..... I quarrel for my passion. We live to pursue our passions and if quarreling helps me keep my passion alive, I more than like quarreling

I quarrel for my dreams!! My dreams and desires are what I want from life for my loved ones and myself. I have always stepped forward to get into a quarrel with someone who tries to break my dreams and stops me for making them come true. If you cannot stand for your dreams, they are not yours and they never were.
So when i look at it this quarreling can be the wand that will help me make my dream come true!!!
Don't you already love to quarrel?


Last but not the least :)

I fight with my loved ones and for my loved ones. When I see that they are heading in the wrong direction and I might need to quarrel with them to have them do the right thing.

I general don't tend to fight with everyone and have a strong personal believe that we fight with people to whom we are close and have an impact on your life. I quarrel for their love, attention. I quarrel with them if I think they are heading in the wrong direction. And I quarrel for them; I will be more than happy to take someone down at a quarrel that is standing against my loved ones.





Even though it sounds very negative of a word, Quarreling has many pros to it. More than anything we should look at it as a way of standing for your beliefs in a stronger manner and express your thoughts in a more sound way for those who are not able to hear them and understand them. A quarrel is very well justified if it’s associated with a deep thought and if you know it’s for the right.

At last I will say that, have a quarrel with oneself before having it with anyone else as even though it’s hard to believe the quarrels with oneself are more fruitful than the quarrels with the outside world…….



So say that you love to quarrel but for the "RIGHT”!!!!!